A few weeks ago, I decided that I was going to set Wednesdays aside for bug and I to just forget about everything thats going on in life- and go on some mini road trips to some fun spots in Florida. Thus far, we have gone to Sea World, Mosi, and Lowry Park Zoo.
I have found these "mommy/bug" days to be a great stress reliever. and to be honest, they have in a way helped me to finally feel completely comfortable in my "single mom role". There is nothing that screams "You are alone!" than going to some of the most family filled places, with just your baby.
It has definitely been a positive experience because I have been learning so many lessons about how to be a more effective parent; these trips are serving a good many purposes, but on top of all of it bug and I are getting to spend real quality time together. time that is not wrapped up in homework, work, court preparation, etc.
Countdown of the top five lessons I've learned in the past month:
5. Leave the cute, oversized purse at home. While I feel much hipper with the cute purse that is supposed to take the place of the standard diaper bag, it is very inconvenient. Instead, opt for the less "cute" and more user friendly backpack.
4. Avoid ANY gift shops for things like bottled water. Instead, opt for the side stands. Once you enter gift shops, or as i call it "credit card hell"- your child will instantly see a million things they want. And if you child is anything like mine, will properly name the stuffed animals and will guilt you into spending $40 on something worth maybe $5.
Keep in mind, your child will be over this overpriced toy before you even make it into the parking lot.
3. Charge your camera the night before. There is nothing more frustrating than standing in a long line for your child to pet the dolphin, only to realize when she gets to- your camera is dead. And to top it all off, you can buy a photo from the staff (ONE YOU COULD HAVE TAKEN FOR FREE had you charged your camera), for the low price of $30. --- I don't know about you but at $30 a picture, I expect the photo to talk.
2. Pack plenty of snacks and water. A day at a theme park will inevitably leave you and your child hungry. Unless you want to pay $10 for a bag filled with three tiny crackers- I suggest you pack plenty.
1. Bring sunscreen and a hat. Those two things will save you from paying all week, for what you did in one day.
Of course, not a rule but make sure to enjoy all the time you spend with your little ones. It really is a joy- and something I have learned should not be taken for granted.
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